Showing newest 24 of 82 posts from 1/1/10 - 2/1/10. Show older posts
Showing newest 24 of 82 posts from 1/1/10 - 2/1/10. Show older posts
Sunday, January 31, 2010
Saturday, January 30, 2010
From Twitter 01-29-2010
- From My Blog: From Twitter 01-28-2010 http://goo.gl/fb/4RMg
- RT @Paramour425: "Invasion of the Love Nest Snatcher 2", the sequel, begins next week. What is particularly bad is that it hasn't been used
- RT @Paramour425: as a love nest between the two. That is just so wrong! My love nest has been empty for 3 months!
- @Paramour425 seriously!
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Friday, January 29, 2010
From Twitter 01-28-2010
- From My Blog: From Twitter 01-27-2010 http://goo.gl/fb/h3XE
- I have been swamped in the business of life the last few days.
- Kink in my neck that is running down my left arm. I need a forceful human-assisted , and an elbow dug in to the muscle.
- RT @ilikepornstars: @SilviaMcKenzie uh oh here we go again! I can help you! LOL
- @ilikepornstars You can "tear me limb from limb?" Literally! *Giggle*
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie Hope you work that kink out and start feeling better, Silvia.
- @easygoer132 Ahhh, somebody out there will pounce on me and beat it out!!!!!
- RT @Paramour425: @SilviaMcKenzie I'd love to help with that...too bad my arm doesn't stretch that far!
- Ohhh, it's gonna be an entendre night tonight (*giggle*)
- @Paramour425 ~~~~tug, tug, tug~~~~
- Stumbled upon a high-end online lingerie boutique whose webpage opens like an Exclusive Elite Escort http://www.lailalee.com/
- Why do photos of bras and panties make me all warm and sexy feeling? It's just colored fabric. Sort of like my Pavlovian Condom Syndrome
- Ms. Monkey Butt has been confined in diapers full-time for a few days, she is ecstatic to be home and diaper FREE!!!
- RT @Paramour425: @SilviaMcKenzie Wasn't it Inspector Gadget (Mathew Broderick version) who could stretch his arms almost indefinitely?
- @Paramour425 Ahhh, our next movie rental (*wink*); I was thinking of the fantastic 4 and the HOT super smart stretchy guy.
- SMN: has a new wish list of couture naughty accoutrements at http://tinyurl.com/yzb2ylb
- http://www.lailalee.com/shop/homepage/snow-fox-stole-with-swarovski-crystal-pearls.html
- Ms. Monkey Butt is so happy she is perched on the tippy top of the roll-top desk, throwing off everything she finds. (ugh)
- @Paramour425 Yeh, I am thinking you will be "home bound" for a couple days..........
- I am planning on living in a sheet for a couple days...
- Not as "sexy" as bra and panties, but I am a "comfort" sort of girl, so a sheet sounds perfect.
- Love this! Love it even more if it came in black pearls to match mine. http://tinyurl.com/yzb2ylb
- Black pear handcuffs - now how couture is that! Looks like my fear of being handcuffed is fading FAST!!!! http://tinyurl.com/ye8tv77
- Platinum would match both my white pearls AND my black ones!!! This is gorgeous!!! http://tinyurl.com/ydp4brg
- @ilikepornstars You mean REAL silk sheets? Why yes, yes I do. 1 set as they were so very very very expensive. Brought them back from China
- @Age_Of_Rhetoric What, what did I miss. Do tell!!!
- @Age_Of_Rhetoric Oh, I "HAVE been missed." I get a little excited sometimes (*giggle*)
- RT @Age_Of_Rhetoric: @SilviaMcKenzie Call me crazy my dear as i can see you in renissance wear as well
- @Age_Of_Rhetoric I have a grand neckline for Renaissance wear.
- RT @Paramour425: @SilviaMcKenzie Done! I'm doing the happy dance!!!
- It truly is grand when the man is wrapped around my little finger (or is that my pussy) (*giggle* *snort* *giggle*)
- OK I am done shopping for Pearl bondage accessories.
- Ignored email, and message boards again today, may very well let the evening slide by without posting anything new to my blog.
- Mmmmmm, feels, sorta, well, sorta GOOD! (*giggle*) May very well go put the vibra-egg to good use (*wink*)
- *snicker, snicker* ~~~nobody knows why I just did~~~ *snicker, snicker~~~
- Ah, man! I just found monkey cereal in my hair. How long has that been there!!!
- @SarahBlakeInc I did NF when I came back to the states to get added exposure as a European published Playboy Playmate. Lot's of avenues
- @SarahBlakeInc NF has lots of various marketing avenues available; and they do all the account billing collections and direct deposit.
- @SarahBlakeInc What changes? Looks like I may need to do some updating?
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Thursday, January 28, 2010
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
From Twitter 01-26-2010
- From My Blog: From Twitter 01-25-2010 http://goo.gl/fb/v9OT
- @smoeytoo Not yet. Work has been such that I have barely had a chance to breathe today and I fear tomorrow will be just as complex. Soon.
- @Paramour425 You are too funny when your feeling frisky.
- @The_Age_of_Rhetoric I do babe. See your main twitter.com page. Look at "Listed" and tah dah! There I am, following YOU!
- RT @Paramour425: @SilviaMcKenzie Tomorrow is Wednesday. I will be very frisky. But alone. Glad there aren't too many more of those ahead!
- @Paramour425 I can see the end of the tunnel glowing in the distance!!!
- I am about to fall asleep in my Kindle.
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Tuesday, January 26, 2010
From Twitter 01-25-2010
- From My Blog: From Twitter 01-24-2010 http://goo.gl/fb/aFUH
- Reading: http://twitthis.com/2ysxsi
- Good day Twitterverse.
- @Paramour425 Good Man!!!!! ~~~~trouble maker~~~~~ ~~~~~trouble seeker~~~~~~
- RT @Age_Of_Rhetoric: @SilviaMcKenzie Miss you
- @Age_Of_Rhetoric Thank you babe. I am here. Working on my next very personal, painfully and pathetically insightful, post.
- From My Blog: Playboy Playmates as "escorts" http://goo.gl/fb/5P1F
- RT @AdoraCash: Americans are addicted to addictions and now addicted to intervention...love Tracy Ullman
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Monday, January 25, 2010
Playboy Playmates as "escorts"
Moments ago the following was posted by Me to a Portland Oregon escort review and message forum:
Now that I have settled back in to the boards with a few "thoughtful" posts and queries, it is time for me to jump-in in my usual style ~~~ head-first.
I can be so insightful, wise, and/or philosophical when it is a topic I can "remove myself from." But this, this is personal. I am not going to tell you it is written in my usual form (or then again it may).
Time has long taught me that life does not come easy for published Playboy Playmates, American published, UK, Australia, Japan, etc., etc., etc., and even little ol' Italia (last I checked there were 14 separate and distinct publications of Playboy -- that was a while back, who knows now).
Playmates are instantly judged by a different measuring stick. We are unconsciously expected to be "perfect" and without "human error," demur virgins that can fuck like banshees (no matter whether or not we have grown-up and had kids), sweet as honey and total bitches at the same time. We supposedly get the best of everything for absolutely nothing, but at the same time are subconsciously, or consciously, forced to work harder for EVERYTHING.
Look at your shoulder right now, see that Auto-Judgment-Chip? Are sitting there shaking your heads "Yes" in agreement? OK, then consciously take it off your shoulder (for the moment).
Now on to my dilemma:
Reviews have always horrified me. Not so much that a man that I have screened so painfully will actually be disappointed or say I have misrepresented myself, but in that I am published under my real name and the illegal exposure attached to reviews (as we cannot control who writes "explicit" reviews) scares the shit out of me. (Evidently not enough that I just roll over, give up and stop putting myself out there...) (glutton for punishment or rule breaker?). The foregoing is a HUGE reason why you will only occasionally see me post an "advertisement" on an escort board under my real name; I much prefer to pay for my advertisements, hence my attendance here on TheHobbyHunter where I "pay" for my banner ad, this way I feel I have the right to receive the discretion I want, need and ask for. This alone makes TheHobbyHunter a one-in-thousands board design.
I did try taking an alias, twice, but people just cannot resist blabbing when they think they have insider juicy info, and outted the Playboy Playmate behind the aliases within weeks (respectively).
Everybody wants to JUST "fuck" us, but nobody wants others to have fucked us before him, and nobody really wants to be "intimate as an individual." We are expected to be open and available to EVERYBODY, but had by none. We are expected to have crazy high rates, but be available to all. We cannot be porn-stars and we cannot be "the girl-next door" (that phrase alone makes me physically roll on the sofa laughing for the molestation by the mass of Playmate wanna-be escorts on the net!). [Eros actually did n in-house study on the most abused advertising terms used by escorts. #1 was the Playboy born "girl next-door" (~Erin Myers, Eros Advertising Specialist)].
I join any escort message board and am instantaneously attacked by the members in, what I can only presume is, a way to knock me down to size, teach me humility, and make me humble. Well fuck, everybody does this every damn day, I think I (and my mature sisters) am surely lower than dirt already - eh?
Now I can hear you all collectively thinking, "Well then why did you submit yourself for publication? Why do you keep coming back to the boards? Why, why why?" You would like to see me "go away" - eh? Now you see what I mean.
Nextly, listen to the voice in your head. Is it reading all of this with a sour tone, as if my voice has inflected disdain? You see, there you go again - with that chip on your shoulder. There is no disdain in my voice. Sure, once, a long time ago there was, it was called self-preservation; then came "fear," yeh, "fear" fear of having to feel beaten over and over and over. Always an outsider. Idealized but rejected. Now, now I have just plain been around for so long that there is only an inquisitive tone.
Not to diminish my own personal stance (god-forbid), but you see, I have "sisters" who have long been interested in marketing themselves, not similar to porn-stars, but not dissimilar either. We want to be "available" in our base area for the traveler who seeks that "once in a life time experience with a Playmate," but be "a special ticket item" when we are off at conventions and such. Heather Scott and I are the only ones who have "done it," got fucked royally (with help (*giggle*)) and came out, relatively, well on the other side. BodyMiracle simply is no longer an option for us anymore, so independent is really the only way "smart" to go.
Published Playboy Playmates seem to live in a world-in-between, and we also seem to be critiqued by a much higher and harsher standard. (I can swallow that, I am accustomed to it now -- hence my rigorous intimate screening process). We are not "porn-stars" and we are not "main-stream" and we are not "escorts."
There is a lot of information above, none really poised as a question, but all being one big fat question.
Feed me. Feed me your thoughts, relate them to your desires, mix them with your experience, just .........
I have gotten so close to the subject that I fear my perspective has just gone wonky.
As always blog comments and private emails are all welcome forms of transmitting your thoughts.
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Now that I have settled back in to the boards with a few "thoughtful" posts and queries, it is time for me to jump-in in my usual style ~~~ head-first.
I can be so insightful, wise, and/or philosophical when it is a topic I can "remove myself from." But this, this is personal. I am not going to tell you it is written in my usual form (or then again it may).
Time has long taught me that life does not come easy for published Playboy Playmates, American published, UK, Australia, Japan, etc., etc., etc., and even little ol' Italia (last I checked there were 14 separate and distinct publications of Playboy -- that was a while back, who knows now).
Playmates are instantly judged by a different measuring stick. We are unconsciously expected to be "perfect" and without "human error," demur virgins that can fuck like banshees (no matter whether or not we have grown-up and had kids), sweet as honey and total bitches at the same time. We supposedly get the best of everything for absolutely nothing, but at the same time are subconsciously, or consciously, forced to work harder for EVERYTHING.
Look at your shoulder right now, see that Auto-Judgment-Chip? Are sitting there shaking your heads "Yes" in agreement? OK, then consciously take it off your shoulder (for the moment).
Now on to my dilemma:
Reviews have always horrified me. Not so much that a man that I have screened so painfully will actually be disappointed or say I have misrepresented myself, but in that I am published under my real name and the illegal exposure attached to reviews (as we cannot control who writes "explicit" reviews) scares the shit out of me. (Evidently not enough that I just roll over, give up and stop putting myself out there...) (glutton for punishment or rule breaker?). The foregoing is a HUGE reason why you will only occasionally see me post an "advertisement" on an escort board under my real name; I much prefer to pay for my advertisements, hence my attendance here on TheHobbyHunter where I "pay" for my banner ad, this way I feel I have the right to receive the discretion I want, need and ask for. This alone makes TheHobbyHunter a one-in-thousands board design.
I did try taking an alias, twice, but people just cannot resist blabbing when they think they have insider juicy info, and outted the Playboy Playmate behind the aliases within weeks (respectively).
Everybody wants to JUST "fuck" us, but nobody wants others to have fucked us before him, and nobody really wants to be "intimate as an individual." We are expected to be open and available to EVERYBODY, but had by none. We are expected to have crazy high rates, but be available to all. We cannot be porn-stars and we cannot be "the girl-next door" (that phrase alone makes me physically roll on the sofa laughing for the molestation by the mass of Playmate wanna-be escorts on the net!). [Eros actually did n in-house study on the most abused advertising terms used by escorts. #1 was the Playboy born "girl next-door" (~Erin Myers, Eros Advertising Specialist)].
I join any escort message board and am instantaneously attacked by the members in, what I can only presume is, a way to knock me down to size, teach me humility, and make me humble. Well fuck, everybody does this every damn day, I think I (and my mature sisters) am surely lower than dirt already - eh?
Now I can hear you all collectively thinking, "Well then why did you submit yourself for publication? Why do you keep coming back to the boards? Why, why why?" You would like to see me "go away" - eh? Now you see what I mean.
Nextly, listen to the voice in your head. Is it reading all of this with a sour tone, as if my voice has inflected disdain? You see, there you go again - with that chip on your shoulder. There is no disdain in my voice. Sure, once, a long time ago there was, it was called self-preservation; then came "fear," yeh, "fear" fear of having to feel beaten over and over and over. Always an outsider. Idealized but rejected. Now, now I have just plain been around for so long that there is only an inquisitive tone.
Not to diminish my own personal stance (god-forbid), but you see, I have "sisters" who have long been interested in marketing themselves, not similar to porn-stars, but not dissimilar either. We want to be "available" in our base area for the traveler who seeks that "once in a life time experience with a Playmate," but be "a special ticket item" when we are off at conventions and such. Heather Scott and I are the only ones who have "done it," got fucked royally (with help (*giggle*)) and came out, relatively, well on the other side. BodyMiracle simply is no longer an option for us anymore, so independent is really the only way "smart" to go.
Published Playboy Playmates seem to live in a world-in-between, and we also seem to be critiqued by a much higher and harsher standard. (I can swallow that, I am accustomed to it now -- hence my rigorous intimate screening process). We are not "porn-stars" and we are not "main-stream" and we are not "escorts."
There is a lot of information above, none really poised as a question, but all being one big fat question.
Feed me. Feed me your thoughts, relate them to your desires, mix them with your experience, just .........
I have gotten so close to the subject that I fear my perspective has just gone wonky.
As always blog comments and private emails are all welcome forms of transmitting your thoughts.
From Twitter 01-24-2010
- From My Blog: From Twitter 01-23-2010 http://goo.gl/fb/DB8G
- "Sex addict" or "sex pest"
Another interesting RSS new feeds that came across my ... http://reframeit.com/c/Cfg4IIcELFy - Photo: via DirtySexyPrettyFun http://tumblr.com/xp95t2qs2
- Stories of Sex Addiction...
Yet another RSS feed to come across my laptop.
All I can say is, I am gl... http://reframeit.com/c/BkRbisTwaSr - Reading: "Pathetic conditions of sex workers in society"( http://twitthis.com/qc5zrp )
- Concept of avoiding entanglments.
From my RSS SUBSCRIBED TO Blog list the foregoing comes. I demarca... http://reframeit.com/c/FdOT-AG-tge - From My Blog: Concept of avoiding entanglments. From http://goo.gl/fb/GnOO
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie thanks for the nice commentary... it'll be interesting to see where I evolve from here...
- @Rachel_Benedict Darl'n you have endless potential!!!
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
Concept of avoiding entanglments. From
"The concept of avoiding entanglementConcept of avoiding entanglments.
Over coffee with a friend in this secretive serious leisure world, we happened to discuss the more philosophical articles in my blog (mostly tagged with “dating” ).
Lately, I’ve been prancing around the scheme that both escorts and our patrons seem to have in common: that of avoiding commitment.
If you’ve read my entries on why I dislike the loaded words “client” and “provider“… then I’m surprised that no one else has brought up that the word commitment is a similarly weighted word, and did not perfectly capture my intended meaning.
The concept of entanglement works better.
Simply defined by the American Heritage Dictionary:
To twist together or entwine into a confusing mass; snarl.
To involve in or as if in a tangle
To complicate; confuse.
This better defines the goals of the hobby than avoiding commitments! Isn’t some level of responsibility necessary for even meeting in the first place? Commitment is the act of engaging and involving, promising. Isn’t such the basis for trust and authenticity on which this type of relationship is founded?
By definition, it is entanglements that we wish to avoid. Complications, and all other synonyms of the word such as “embarrassment, enmeshment, snares, mess….”
Take the concept of entanglement a bit further, and you get into quantum physics as it pertains to philosophy. Take another definition I found:
Entanglement is a term used in quantum theory to describe the way that particles of energy/matter can become correlated to predictably interact with each other regardless of how far apart they are.
Perhaps, within the former use of the misplaced concept of commitment was the notion that one also wishes to avoid further obligations of interacting with the other after the predetermined amount of time has been spent together. Substitute “particles of energy/matter” in that definition and you have a major expectation of traditional relationships (platonic, socially monogamous, even familial) .
Perhaps accurately renaming is one step closer to perfecting my paradigm of this social hobby. From my heart and experiences, I believe that language shapes thoughts, moods, emotions, choices… and ultimately reality."
From my RSS SUBSCRIBED TO Blog list the foregoing comes. I demarcate it here, on my blog, as it took me back to a mental place that I personally held steadfastly nailed to the floor for a good number of years. In my own personal case, that place has finally evolved, but I L-O-V-E reflecting on it, seeing where others who are so similar to me in kind are, and where I have managed to evolved to (or devolve... (the later being only something You, the reader, can judge, as it applied to YOU)).
All I can say is "I love how this particular woman's brain works, if and only because it reminds me so very much of my younger "lady of pleasure" self.
Comment posted on A primary goal of escorting is avoiding entanglements, not commitments | RachaelBenedict.com - Lady of Pleasure in St. Louis MO at rachaelbenedict.com using Reframe It
From Twitter 01-23-2010
- Unfortunately, it appears that the only Seattle escort message board that is fetish kink friendly is TNA, which has a limited intellectual
- frame work amongst its members. I would like to post the query to TheReviewBoard.net, but get the feeling it will be harshly dissented on
- Perhaps placing the ISO on the Seattle @TERtweet board is a possibility. Thoughts from the Twitterverse audience?
- It appears to me that BigDoggie.com has died as to forum input, having become merely an unfrequented ad posting stream (Pacific NW that is)
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie Yeah, the local TER board will work.
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie Just can't get over how hot you look on all fours on the top of your blog.
- Talk about tunnel vision! @easygoer132 *giggle* *giggle *giggle*
- REVALATION: it is "male" .................. @easygoer132
- ~~~rolling on sofa, giggling to self~~~
- Good lord, I really, REALLY, need to close my alter-ego Twitter name an merge everything. But people keep following La Femme Fetiche!
- All La_Femme_Fetiche followers, you need to move over to follow my main stream at SilviaMcKenzie
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: I checked twitter and totally forgot which pot I've already planted strawberry seeds in, and which I haven't
- @Rachel_Benedict Is it sad that "I totally get that" ???
- Near 11p Saturday night on the Mediterranean and I am drinking a cold coffee (espresso) and Rum ~~~ does that a conundrum make?
- Do I need to DM all LaFemmeFetiche followers and tell them where my new Twitter stream is, or just "dump" them?
- Hmmm, I don't mind being "rude" on purpose, but without intention... it's just as waste of "intent"
- @SydneyLorenxxx Sweetie, how are things out in Pdx? I return Mid-April and am just curious.
- @SydneyLorenxxx Are you still on Eros? I see the Eros advertiser membership has dropped significantly in the last month. Scary....
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie LOL ya - Twitter just isn't interesting or fast paced or ADHD enough lol
- AND AGAIN !!!! @Rachel_Benedict I so get that! Are you sure you arn't Western European?
- @Rachel_Benedict the RSS feed I set up to follow your sight is, well, uhhhhh..........
- @Rachel_Benedict ......here let me just ask...... have you made any overhauls to it lately? How is the blog? I want to stream you on my
- @Rachel_Benedict REPHRASE: I want to stream your brain on my blog, but the format of your website keeps tossing my RSS feed attempts.
- @Rachel_Benedict Cripes, you most likely realize already, but, for the masses of the Twitterverse. I do not steal content! I promote
- hell'a crazy hot women like @Rachel_Benedict AND, again AND their crazy sexy brains.
- ~~~ gumbles~~~ damn need to 'disclaimers' every freaking thing... grrrrr
- @BustyTours, here, as part of your learning curve, this is a "mention." Which differs from a DM [direct message]
- @BustyTours you can "mention" ANYBODY, but only people that follow you can DM a response to your DM to them.
- Signing off to go post my ISO to @TERtweet for Seattle Washington.
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie let me see if I can set up a plugin to just collect the journal rss...
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie I need a category RSS plugin, or to find the category RSS feed address,
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie and then put one of those cool icons that link to it
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie just visualized my vision of the "adult industry" -
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie pleasure concentrations here http://rachaelbenedict.com/files/2e3
- @Rachel_Benedict I did a "feed" search on your site and found an RSS feed, but it is oddly comingled with your "out of date" Twitters
- @Rachel_Benedict .... and "dumps" my feed request after a week or so. There is definitely something I am missing....
- RT @BustyTours: @SilviaMcKenzie Is this a mention? :)
- @BustyTours Sexy, sexy, sexy..... Oh "YES" it is!
- ~~~ feels like she has accomplished something today ~~~
- @BustyTours HOT!!!! avatar by the way. Mmmmm (watch out, I'm "bi" --- but harmless(ish) (*giggle*))
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie your journal is endlessly fascinating - love your notes and observations
- ~~~~coming from the sexy ass brainiac~~~~ @Rachel_Benedict
- RT @BustyTours: @SilviaMcKenzie so how did u see my first tweet if u are not following me? Or are u?
- Uhhhh, @BustyTours I'm a sneaky little minx (*wink*)
- OK, jest aside, @BustyTours if you are logged in via Twitter.com itself (not a platform) look to the right, see where it says "Listed"
- @BustyTours ...you will see where you are on my "Pro_Sexy_Goddesses" list.
- @BustyTours people are great in that they send me Twitter mentions to add new "escorts" that I have missed on my list. I also do queries
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie I just found a subscribe by category plugin that points to the RSS feed of categories Check blog again
- ~~~putting SilviaMcKenzie Twitterverse on pause to go check @Rachel_Benedict blog~~~
- RT @Poohbear98188: Dicks Drive in is a mob scene! A beater VW next to 150K Mercedes. God bless America :o)
- OK @Poohbear98188 ...I really wanna see this place that is multi-financial friendly and called "DICK'S"!!!!!
- My satellite connection here on the Mediterranean tonight sucks the worst thing you could possible suck!!!!!!!!
- still waiting for @Rachel_Benedict website to load. Twitter avatars are not loading at all. SUCKS, SUCKS, SUCKS!
- RT @ilikepornstars: @SilviaMcKenzie You've NEVER been there? You're missing out on great times and food!
- Hello my friends in the "Emerald City" you need to... take my hand.... and show the foreigner the sites!!!! *giggle* *giggle*
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie I know it's tunnel vision. I just want you like that so much. Tell me how good it'l be, please!
- It's "OK" @easygoer132 your on my "He's special (special) list" *wink*
- *giggle* @Rachel_Benedict site finally loads ------ "stinky stigma" ----- *giggle* ---- L-O-V-E it!!!
- As the current @Rachel_Benedict journal post talks to the intellect in me with a chart! A chart! Yeh, a freaking CHART.
- RT @BustyTours: @SilviaMcKenzie mONKEY kISSES :)
- @BustyTours *giggle* litteral or figurative? Because I live 24-7 with a real live monkey.
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie Thanks, Silvia. You're terrific.
- @easygoer132 ..... ahhh, shucks......
- RT @ilikepornstars: @SilviaMcKenzie I'll do way more than SHOW you once I take your hand....
- MMMMM, @ilikepornstars .......promise or declaration?
- ~~~~hoping he says BOTH~~~~
- ~~~I made a post on Rachael Benedict's Blog!~~~~ told her she's "sexy, sexy" (*wink*) http://tinyurl.com/ygssue9
- RT @BustyTours: @SilviaMcKenzie Saw the phrase on yoour page... ) Hope to get a monkey for my place in Thailand
- @BustyTours Monkeys are like having a 4 year old human child with ADD that lives, in that state, until it's 25 years old (mine is a Tamarin)
- Now to glean a FULLY functional RSS feed from Rachael Bendict's blog and new reader it (with direct link) to her website.
- ?will coffee and Rum, plus the late hour, on a Saturday, allow me to think clearly to implement [*giggle* implicate] such?
- RT @ilikepornstars: @SilviaMcKenzie I promise and declare that to you!
- ~~~~smiles to self contentedly~~~~ (with huge does of "I'm gonna get me 'some' when I get to Seattle") [that was tacky of me wasn't it?]
- ~~~shrugs and contentedly and selfishly goes back to working on Racheal Benedict's RSS feed knowing @ilikepornstars will "feed" me later~~~
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie You must be awesome in bed.
- @easygoer132 Uhhhh, even though I fuck myself regularly.... I do not believe I am qualified to comment on that question (*giggle*)
- RT @BustyTours: @SilviaMcKenzie Mine would be a outdoor monkey... A good friend has a Gibbon... It is glued to him.
- Thing about monkeys @BustyTours is they are VERY social animals, not far removed from humans, and quite possibly, in my experience, MORE
- in need [requirement] of physical contact. Very Very comparable to the physical contact required by human children - forever - @BustyTours
- There's a woman in the states that begged me to take her female Snow Macaque, purely due to the emotional demands of the monkey @BustyTours
- @BustyTours ...many people mistakenly catagorize a monkeys needs with those of a cat or dog, and they are so very very very far off base.
- @BustyTours ...put a monkey alone for very long and you will have a terror on your hands. I suggest, if you get one that you plan to have
- @BustyTours ...living outdoors, be sure to get TWO so as to afford the companionship they require for mental and emotional stability.
- @BustyTours my words regarding monkeys as pets are very passionate. I have lived with SMALL monkeys since I was 8 years of age.
- @BustyTours Mid-sized monkeys' behavior demands become even more "human-LIKE" with size.
- RT @BustyTours: @SilviaMcKenzie Can I ask what size is your design background? pixels...
- @BustyTours for Twitter?
- @Rachel_Benedict I am still getting a broad-spectrum mish mash on the RSS feed stream links. Which "category" should I be attempting feed
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie Did you hear about the woman on Connecticut that literally got her face ripped off by her friends chimp.
- @easygoer132 YES!!!! Would you like me to "go off" on all the things that were done WRONG in that ownership scenario?
- @easygoer132 But first let me "go off on" all the idiots that can have KIDS and DOGS. Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh.... I feel a tangent coming on!
- People just because you "can" do something, does not mean that you "should!" Husbands, kids, animals whatever. FUCK! Shit infuriates me.
- RT @ilikepornstars: @SilviaMcKenzie I promise and declare to "feed" your every need, whatever your heart desires.
- @ilikepornstars you better knock that shit off! Or you'll have me eating out of your .... or wait.... you eating out of my .... pussy!
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie the Journal http://rachaelbenedict.com/files/category/journal/feed/
- @Rachel_Benedict This might help.... I use the current version of FeedDemon, which is the current cutting-edge (supossedly) feed reader.....
- @Rachel_Benedict PLEASE leave room for me to be ~~~~~~~~~~~WRONG~~~~~~~~~
- Twitter kicked me off for over Tweeting, and put me in the "time-out" penalty box. So sucks having communications cut off mid FLIRT
- RT @Paramour425: @silviamckenzie just saw hot female cop looking in Victoria's Secret. Now I have a cop fantasy!
- Welcome to my "cop fantasy" world @Paramour425 !!! [not like you haven't been subjected to a few of my fantasies (*wink*)]
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Saturday, January 23, 2010
From Twitter 01-22-2010
- Reading: "Blow Up Your Pussy | Dirty | Sexy | Pretty | Fun"( http://twitthis.com/narf6k )
- Porn: Benefit or Detriment? http://reframeit.com/c/7Y0FfAajB_v
- From My Blog: Porn: Benefit or Detriment? http://goo.gl/fb/pKe7
- Conversations with Men Who Pay For Sex..
Interesting read! http://reframeit.com/c/3v2Inq85514 - From My Blog: Conversations with Men Who Pay For Sex.. http://goo.gl/fb/p6lu
- @tinyMember May I post your comments ("as a friend on Twitter brought to my attention") as a side note on the linked Glossary on my blog
- @tinyMember Damn mouthful that was, and it doesn't make sense to even me, and I wrote it!
- RT @Age_Of_Rhetoric: @SilviaMcKenzie miss you
- @Age_Of_Rhetoric Did you sleep? I did, for longer stints than in weeks. Thank you. Even thought it was the pillow I spooned and not YOU.
- RT @tinyMember: @SilviaMcKenzie from your linked glossary~BFE: Boyfriend Experience,
- RT @tinyMember: @SilviaMcKenzie A subjective term used primarily by providers to describe good clients.
- RT @tinyMember: @SilviaMcKenzie I think the vast majority of users of the term BFE have a very diff meaning than their value as a client
- RT @tinyMember: @SilviaMcKenzie ...or hobbyists are way too gullible and some providers are far more scheming than I would have imagined!
- @tinyMember Having been a looooong standing member of the gullible crowd... I can see how easy and delightful it is to be just such!
- @tinyMember but I do NOT agree with anybody, male or female, being "scheming" in that it is their "intent" to take advantage of another.
- @tinyMember Sadly, there is no "effective" (or is it "affective"?) way to educate one's self short of being subjected to some level of it.
- @tinyMember I as one, would like to think that my naiveity, gullability, and overall self-applied blindedness keeps me "normal" - else.....
- @tinyMember ...I may become cynical, and that's simply is not an attractive option. Less than cynical would be "numbed" and that's a NO too
- No #ff from me today people, as I have not had any new interactive peps enter my Twitterverse as of late.
- I have decided to only #ff engaging people in my Twitterverse. So you want a #FF from me, interact with me. I send out plenty of mentions
- And since my Twitterverse is select and small, I respond to all mentions sent to me. So the opportunity is there.
- RT @tinyMember: @SilviaMcKenzie Your last statement (being subjected) is absolutely one of Life's Truths!
- RT @tinyMember: @SilviaMcKenzie And I concur, it can lead to cynicism. Not good.
- RT @tinyMember: @SilviaMcKenzie as far as scheming goes, how else to describe a provider who refers to the bfe as a 'whale'
- RT @tinyMember: @SilviaMcKenzie and not in a "weight" sense?
- ~~~wringing hands, because Urban Dictionary is not giving this foreign chick insight into what "whale" means outside Websters~~~~
- @tinyMember I don't like admitting this, but I am at a loss. I do not know what your last comment means. Please educate me as to 'whale'
- Boy there are times that I feel soooooo not "americanized" and other times that I wanna run home to Europa scared cause I actually "got it"!
- RT @Age_Of_Rhetoric: @SilviaMcKenzie What if all they want is you ? :)
- @Age_Of_Rhetoric Are you toying me with "rhetoric"? (*giggle*)
- RT @Age_Of_Rhetoric: @SilviaMcKenzie Sleep is almost a foreign notion to me..Some ancient concept that was done in tribal times,
- RT @Age_Of_Rhetoric: @SilviaMcKenzie though spooning you..wow:)
- @Age_Of_Rhetoric ~~~~causes Silvia-McKenzie to flush~~~~~
- RT @tinyMember: @SilviaMckenzie 'whale' in Vegas denotes a high roller, likely to plausible and lose
- RT @tinyMember: @SilviaMcKenzie sorry plausible should have been 'player'
- @tinyMember ahhhhh, got it! But you know, since you provide the casino comparison, I can see a "professional provider"
- @tinyMember working that exact angle. Hmmm. Something thought provoking for me to ponder.... Hmmmmm.... ~~~steps outside of self~~~
- I L-O-V-E to think. I love people that "think with me." I love having my thoughts provoked -- or is it I love thought provoking people.
- I L-O-V-E the word love and the degrees of contextuality that it can be spread over and upon!
- RT @mistressmatisse: "Dream Police" by Cheap Trick is surely one of the best rock songs ever. Especially when you turn it up really LOUD!
- @mistressmatisse Hot damn!!! Cheap Trick, Lover Boy...... all those. Hot damn!!! ~~~strains ear to listen from across the pond~~~
- 11:30p and I have a date with my vibrating egg (sheesh, I must be feeling better!!!) ...... and a pillow, recently named @Age_of_Rhetoric.
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Friday, January 22, 2010
Conversations with Men Who Pay For Sex..
"Imaginary Conversations with Men Who Pay for SexConversations with Men Who Pay For Sex..
Friday January 22, 2010
I was trudging my way through Julie Bindel's account of her interviews with men who pay for sex in the Guardian this morning. It's exhausting just navigating around the bias to try and learn something other than what this particular writer thinks is the real story behind sex work. And then I found a way. As Bindel described her carefully co-constructed narratives of why men pay for sex I began asking questions of my own.
I was inspired by the first few paragraphs where the men described their experiences of paying for sex. Bindel tells us that some men do it but don't know why they do it, some feel shame and guilt around doing it, and some are disappointed by the experience but keep doing it anyway.
I imagine asking these men how much this describes their sex life with people they don't pay? Having talked with thousands of people about their sex lives over the years it's certainly my impression that shame, guilt, disappointment, and lack of introspection on why they have sex is part of many, if not most, people's sex lives. It doesn't describe all of it, but it's there at different times with different partners.
Where Bindel chooses to ask a man how he felt about the "women he buys" I imagine asking men whether or not they feel like they are buying a woman. Actually the real question I would ask is what exactly do they think they are paying for when they exchange money for sex. Are they paying for someone's time? For someone's attention? For manual labor? I've had these conversations with people I know who do pay for sex, and the answers are usually different for different people, in different circumstances, and at different times of their lives. But I wish I could ask these men about this, since it seems as if only some of what they had to say was of interest to Bindel and her fellow interviewers. I also wish I could ask them questions that would let them talk about paying for sex from people who aren't women. I understand that complicates matters, but since my imaginary conversations aren't about proving a point, I have a bit more latitude.
Bindel expresses compassion for men who need to form a bond with "another human being" but who, in her mind, will never find it in sexual encounters that are paid for. I imagine questions both for her and for the men she feels compassion for. Does she believe this won't happen because she doesn't think sex workers are human beings? I'm not just taking a cheap shot with this question. Bindel is a writer, a journalist. Surely she was aware that this is an implication of how she wrote the article and that sentence in particular. Or is it because she believes no bond can exist between people when money is exchanged for sex? I imagine asking the men what they think of this. It seems strange to me that to acknowledge the violence and exploitation in a situation one has to deny that anything else exists, ever. I don't know what to do now with the stories I've heard and read from sex workers about some experiences with some clients that they describe as important.
Eventually I stop imagining conversations. I start writing this blog post. I remember that these conversations are happening, just not in the Guardian and not inside most of the funded research on sex work. These kinds of conversations are happening most frequently among sex workers. They're happening online, at conferences, and in excellent collections of writing like Audacia Ray's Naked on the Internet and more recently David Henry Sterry's Hos, Hookers, Call-Girls, and Rent Boys.
So my imagination kicks in and I dream about someone like Sterry finding himself giving a writing workshop with men who pay for sex, and working with those men to produce a companion collection Hos.
There are books about men who pay for sex, but I've never come across one as complex and rich as Sterry's collection. I've never come across something that matches actually talking to men who pay for sex and letting them talk. It's not that what they say is necessarily pretty or something you want to hear, but it needs to be heard."
Interesting read!
Comment posted on Imaginary Conversations with Men Who Pay for Sex at sexuality.about.com using Reframe It
Porn: Benefit or Detriment?
"For the past several decades, a debate has raged as to whether or not pornography yields deleterious effects at the individual and/or societal levels (e.g., increased negative views toward women; increased rate of sexual crimes against women). In many instances, those who have sought to link pornography to countless ills have been ideologically motivated, as the aggregate scientific evidence hardly supports such conclusions. See chapter 6 of my book The Evolutionary Bases of Consumption (p. 228-235) for some relevant references on pornography.Porn: Benefit or Detriment?
In today's post, I'd like to briefly report on two recent studies that shed light on the matter. In a paper published in 2009 in the International Journal of Law and Psychiatry, Milton Diamond reviewed a very broad number of studies that have explored the supposed ill effects of pornography. Subsequent to his extensive review, Diamond concludes (p. 312):
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"Indeed, the data reported and reviewed suggests that the thesis is myth and, if anything, there is an inverse causal relationship between an increase in pornography and sex crimes. Further, considering the findings of studies of community standards and wide spread usage of SEM [sexually explicit material], it is obvious that in local communities as nationally and internationally, porn is available, widely used and felt appropriate for voluntary adult consumption. If there is a consensus against pornography it is in regard to any SEM that involves children or minors in its production or consumption. Lastly we see that objections to erotic materials are often made on the basis of supposed actual, social or moral harm to women. No such cause and effect has been demonstrated with any negative consequence."
This is yet another review of the literature that seems to find no societal ill effects of pornography. What about at the individual level? Are women who view pornography terrorized beyond redemption? Do they descend into a well of despair and self-doubt about their sexuality? Do men become misogynist monsters upon viewing pornographic material? Do they develop debilitating penis insecurities at the sight of well-endowed male porn actors? Let's see what Gert Martin Hald and Neil M. Malamuth found in their 2008 paper titled Self-Perceived Effects of Pornographic Consumption. I should mention that Neil Malamuth is a highly regarded scholar of pornography who has often argued for its supposed ill effects. Hence, if there exists a possibility of an a priori bias here, it would be in hoping to find that pornography yields negative consequences.
In their survey of 688 young Danish adults (men = 316; women = 372), Hald and Malamuth found that respondents construed the viewing of hardcover pornography as beneficial to their sex lives, their attitudes towards sex, their perceptions and attitudes towards members of the opposite sex, toward life in general, and over all. The obtained beneficial effects were statistically significant for all but one measure across both sexes. Now here is the kicker: A positive correlation was obtained between the amount of hardcover pornography that was viewed and the impact of the benefits reaped. This positive correlation was found for both sexes. In other words, the more that one watched porn, the stronger the benefits (for both sexes)! There you have it.
This post should not be construed as my being in favor of pornography, as my personal opinion is irrelevant to the matter at hand. Rather I am reporting on recent data regarding this debate and in so doing I wish to highlight the fact that ideology should never trump scientific evidence."
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Thursday, January 21, 2010
Just For Shits and Giggles - Review Template
Found the following "template" on a message board and thought I would screw around with it like I did the Fetish checklist in another post.
LOCATION: Portland, Oregon; Seattle & Olympia, Washington; Monte Carlo, Monaco
DATE: By advance arrangement
NAME: Silvia-McKenzie Navah also known as La Femme Fetiche Fatale
INCALL/OUTCALL: Incall or Outcall
INCALL CLEANLINESS: Opulence -- Fetiche love den is a delight as well
AGENCY OR INDY: Independent
ACCURATE PICTURE / VIDEO: Yes. She has photos from back in her Playboy Italia days clear up to present day photos and video clips.
AGE: ageless, mature, late 30's near 40?
PERSONALITY: Seductive, flirty,
RACE: caucasian Mediterranean (She is from Europe)
BODY TYPE: Tone, tight, smooth
WEIGHT: 130 fit
HEIGHT: 5'7"
BUST: supple enhancement, 34-D
WAIST: tight 25.5"
HIPS: curvy 37.5"
HAIR: Shoulder length, ranges in shades of red
EYES: Grey
FEET: manicured size 8 open toe, 8.5 close toe, 9 fetish wear.
SKIN TONE: Mediterranean olive tone, smooth, clear, refined.
TRIMMING: Mostly lasered smooth, tiny little patch of maturity.
TATTOOS: One small tasteful one at bikini line
SCARS: a few character-marks. Long faded breast surgery scar. Hairline thin well-faded cesarean.
PIERCINGS: Ears
CLOTHES: casually elegant evening wear, lingerie, fetish wear
GLASSES: Sunglasses
MOANS OR OTHER SOUNDS?: Purrs incessantly. Giggles, squeals, suggestive dirty talk, more purring, then explosive.
ENERGY LEVEL DISPLAYED: play well together
MULTIPLE CUPS?: If you can.
FRENCH: Giver and a taker
MALE FRENCH BERET: She has a cute way of giving you the option either way.
SMOKES: Icky!! No No No
DRINKS: Propel, Coke Zero, red wine, Muscato, dirty martini, Spanish coffee, etc etc etc
KISSING TECHNIQUE: sensual, teasing, slow, soft, shallow, deep, fast, hard, the full range. Sloppy wet kisses are a turn-off.
GREEK: subjective, depends on various factors, by very special invitation only.
RUSSIAN: Oh yes! Loves it, encourages it, giggles and squeals in delight.
DON’T’s: dont be an ass, idiot, jerk, butt-head, dissenter, pessimist, arrogant, boarish, asinine
WEBSITE: http://www.Silvia-McKenzie-Navah.com
SCREENING PROCESS: Email. DateCheck.com. A unique unprecedented look into how you are intimately compatible.
EMAIL: silvia . mckenzie . navah at gmail dot com
PHONE: phone is very difficult due to professional career, kids, etc. Will give when the time is right.
RATES: Does not sell sex! Rates are for time and companionship only! Anything that may occur is between consenting adults. High-end of multi-hour standard for the area she is visiting.
RECOMMEND: For the right person. Yes!
REPEAT: alternative rate structure for repeat visits. Grandfathering.
COMMENTS:
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LOCATION: Portland, Oregon; Seattle & Olympia, Washington; Monte Carlo, Monaco
DATE: By advance arrangement
NAME: Silvia-McKenzie Navah also known as La Femme Fetiche Fatale
INCALL/OUTCALL: Incall or Outcall
INCALL CLEANLINESS: Opulence -- Fetiche love den is a delight as well
AGENCY OR INDY: Independent
ACCURATE PICTURE / VIDEO: Yes. She has photos from back in her Playboy Italia days clear up to present day photos and video clips.
AGE: ageless, mature, late 30's near 40?
PERSONALITY: Seductive, flirty,
RACE: caucasian Mediterranean (She is from Europe)
BODY TYPE: Tone, tight, smooth
WEIGHT: 130 fit
HEIGHT: 5'7"
BUST: supple enhancement, 34-D
WAIST: tight 25.5"
HIPS: curvy 37.5"
HAIR: Shoulder length, ranges in shades of red
EYES: Grey
FEET: manicured size 8 open toe, 8.5 close toe, 9 fetish wear.
SKIN TONE: Mediterranean olive tone, smooth, clear, refined.
TRIMMING: Mostly lasered smooth, tiny little patch of maturity.
TATTOOS: One small tasteful one at bikini line
SCARS: a few character-marks. Long faded breast surgery scar. Hairline thin well-faded cesarean.
PIERCINGS: Ears
CLOTHES: casually elegant evening wear, lingerie, fetish wear
GLASSES: Sunglasses
MOANS OR OTHER SOUNDS?: Purrs incessantly. Giggles, squeals, suggestive dirty talk, more purring, then explosive.
ENERGY LEVEL DISPLAYED: play well together
MULTIPLE CUPS?: If you can.
FRENCH: Giver and a taker
MALE FRENCH BERET: She has a cute way of giving you the option either way.
SMOKES: Icky!! No No No
DRINKS: Propel, Coke Zero, red wine, Muscato, dirty martini, Spanish coffee, etc etc etc
KISSING TECHNIQUE: sensual, teasing, slow, soft, shallow, deep, fast, hard, the full range. Sloppy wet kisses are a turn-off.
GREEK: subjective, depends on various factors, by very special invitation only.
RUSSIAN: Oh yes! Loves it, encourages it, giggles and squeals in delight.
DON’T’s: dont be an ass, idiot, jerk, butt-head, dissenter, pessimist, arrogant, boarish, asinine
WEBSITE: http://www.Silvia-McKenzie-Navah.com
SCREENING PROCESS: Email. DateCheck.com. A unique unprecedented look into how you are intimately compatible.
EMAIL: silvia . mckenzie . navah at gmail dot com
PHONE: phone is very difficult due to professional career, kids, etc. Will give when the time is right.
RATES: Does not sell sex! Rates are for time and companionship only! Anything that may occur is between consenting adults. High-end of multi-hour standard for the area she is visiting.
RECOMMEND: For the right person. Yes!
REPEAT: alternative rate structure for repeat visits. Grandfathering.
COMMENTS:
IN SEARCH OF: Alternative Sexuality Friendly, Submissive Bi-sexual-friendly Provider for duos with Loving FemDom Provider
Some time ago, I put this ISO out on one-or-another escort review and message boards, or ProDom forums, somewhere in the Portland, Seattle (or other), area before. Forgot where (my memory flaws on minor points is unimportant to me). It/they turned up zero responses... but, as times change and, well, being the sensual-possibilities glutton that I am, here it is, yet again. Pass it along if you will, I am posting it to my blog and perhaps another forum or two (which, if I might add, is not well-read by the female of our species).
WARNING: I am, by nature, verbose, this post will not stray from that inclination.
Since it is my way, I am going to be upfront first, and fluffy-ish you in a moment. OK? Grand!
MY OVERALL INDUSTRY PERSPECTIVE: "Sex is funny - love is serious. I don't want to love you too seriously."
My writing-style tends to "come off as" serious, but my hand's-on and interpersonal perspective lacks "seriousness." You can blame this on my education and main-stream career (or being the mother of 8). When it comes down to the heat-of-the-moment, seriousness is oh so far from my heated-perspective.
I do not use the word "submissive" lightly, nor staunchly. I L-O-V-E a great actress, but I despise "pretenders" (I know "despise is a strong word, but I want to be upfront and honest as, with "Me" in general, this endeavor has a personal aspect to it for me). I am worldly in a sense that most do not fully comprehend and I see BS easily, call it, forgive it, attempt to teach you to rise above it, and move forward FASTER than makes most non-Europeans comfortable.
I am loving, forgiving, and yet demanding. I am scary "smart" but can be totally "blonde" at times. I fuck-up! I error! I admit when I am wrong quickly, so fast in fact that it takes the mass majority of people off-guard (I learned this as the eldest-child growing up over-protecting a mentally-disabled sibling). I am not "perfect" but need YOU to think I am according to none other than YOU, and when you have "outgrown" Me, I will most likely see it coming, but will respect you deeply if you step to the plate first.
I screen my potential clients oh so painfully for MUTUAL compatibility because I have a hard time with my own perceived personal failure (eldest child syndrome). This could be viewed as my number one "flaw," and one that, in my maturity, I have come to terms with, learned to accommodate, and feel I have succeeded with exponentially. (lemon-aid from lemons?)
Another notable personality tattoo is that I do NOT view life as "hell on earth," but instead my behavioral-norm is to find delight in the differences amongst people, to find the humor in their perceived faux pas, and am amused by most of what happens "around" me. In the same breath, don't fucking fuck with me! (I am good enough at doing that with myself).
I have serious "trust" issues, in that I am both learned and do have multiple-levels of "something to loose." I just do not blindly put my faith and trust into "strangers." I ask that you TRY not to take this personally (and I know full well that being a "female" such is a difficult task in and of itself). I am Mediterranean and we, as a small cultural-pod of people, are societarily (sp?) raised to only put blind faith in "la familia," this is a HUGE cultural difference between Mediterraneans and Americans (you should see how "trust" depleted the Brits are - and that's is not a dis. on the Brits!). I judge not, purely demarcate the difference, I know, I alone, am the "foreigner" on the American shore.
I am not, nor ever have been, "submissive" and seriously hope to learn to connect with this aspect by living vicariously through YOU, as someone who will come to "know" me and whom I can trust (to, admittedly, my limited capacity to do so). That is not to say I cannot "sub from the bottom," but if you are a sub you already KNOW there is nothing "submissive" about being in control from beneath.
I giggle and squeal when I get excited. I "purr" incessantly in my civilian life as well as in my sex-worker genres -- it's annoying, intimidating and sends mixed signals, depending on what cultural imprint you carry -- again I reiterate, I am European, Mediterranean in fact.
I have difficulty restraining myself when I get turned-on, for that matter I personally see there is absolutely zero benefit to ME in attempting to "restrain myself," this is yet another Silvia-ism quirk. I do not "hide" my thoughts or feeling well, so you will always know where you stand with me, but in the same light, I get over shit FAST, as in I deal with differences and misunderstandings in real-time and move back to the good stuff so fast it makes people's heads spin. It is, oh so yet, another Silvia-McKenzie-ism.
I am a mentally, emotionally, sensually, sexually "deep" and intense GFE Femdom (good lord, I hate using the acronym "GFE!" It simply has become so subjective and bastardized, but for lack of a better term for the moment, I shall suffer through the mess it will make to get my "intent" across).
You will NOT "make a living" doing duos with me. As said above, I screen My potential clients so painfully, and am at the tippy-top of the local rate-structure (for whatever city I am visiting), that I ultimately see oh so very few people. That being said, I do not expect you to not play over and above what you do with me - I feel it would be both delusional and idiotic for anyone to think such was realistically possible (and I am one that L-O-V-E-S fantasies).
As grotesquely verbose as the above is, I am oh so absolutely possitive there is some delicate point I have overlooked. Nonetheless, there it is, my ISO.
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WARNING: I am, by nature, verbose, this post will not stray from that inclination.
Since it is my way, I am going to be upfront first, and fluffy-ish you in a moment. OK? Grand!
MY OVERALL INDUSTRY PERSPECTIVE: "Sex is funny - love is serious. I don't want to love you too seriously."
My writing-style tends to "come off as" serious, but my hand's-on and interpersonal perspective lacks "seriousness." You can blame this on my education and main-stream career (or being the mother of 8). When it comes down to the heat-of-the-moment, seriousness is oh so far from my heated-perspective.
I do not use the word "submissive" lightly, nor staunchly. I L-O-V-E a great actress, but I despise "pretenders" (I know "despise is a strong word, but I want to be upfront and honest as, with "Me" in general, this endeavor has a personal aspect to it for me). I am worldly in a sense that most do not fully comprehend and I see BS easily, call it, forgive it, attempt to teach you to rise above it, and move forward FASTER than makes most non-Europeans comfortable.
I am loving, forgiving, and yet demanding. I am scary "smart" but can be totally "blonde" at times. I fuck-up! I error! I admit when I am wrong quickly, so fast in fact that it takes the mass majority of people off-guard (I learned this as the eldest-child growing up over-protecting a mentally-disabled sibling). I am not "perfect" but need YOU to think I am according to none other than YOU, and when you have "outgrown" Me, I will most likely see it coming, but will respect you deeply if you step to the plate first.
I screen my potential clients oh so painfully for MUTUAL compatibility because I have a hard time with my own perceived personal failure (eldest child syndrome). This could be viewed as my number one "flaw," and one that, in my maturity, I have come to terms with, learned to accommodate, and feel I have succeeded with exponentially. (lemon-aid from lemons?)
Another notable personality tattoo is that I do NOT view life as "hell on earth," but instead my behavioral-norm is to find delight in the differences amongst people, to find the humor in their perceived faux pas, and am amused by most of what happens "around" me. In the same breath, don't fucking fuck with me! (I am good enough at doing that with myself).
I have serious "trust" issues, in that I am both learned and do have multiple-levels of "something to loose." I just do not blindly put my faith and trust into "strangers." I ask that you TRY not to take this personally (and I know full well that being a "female" such is a difficult task in and of itself). I am Mediterranean and we, as a small cultural-pod of people, are societarily (sp?) raised to only put blind faith in "la familia," this is a HUGE cultural difference between Mediterraneans and Americans (you should see how "trust" depleted the Brits are - and that's is not a dis. on the Brits!). I judge not, purely demarcate the difference, I know, I alone, am the "foreigner" on the American shore.
I am not, nor ever have been, "submissive" and seriously hope to learn to connect with this aspect by living vicariously through YOU, as someone who will come to "know" me and whom I can trust (to, admittedly, my limited capacity to do so). That is not to say I cannot "sub from the bottom," but if you are a sub you already KNOW there is nothing "submissive" about being in control from beneath.
I giggle and squeal when I get excited. I "purr" incessantly in my civilian life as well as in my sex-worker genres -- it's annoying, intimidating and sends mixed signals, depending on what cultural imprint you carry -- again I reiterate, I am European, Mediterranean in fact.
I have difficulty restraining myself when I get turned-on, for that matter I personally see there is absolutely zero benefit to ME in attempting to "restrain myself," this is yet another Silvia-ism quirk. I do not "hide" my thoughts or feeling well, so you will always know where you stand with me, but in the same light, I get over shit FAST, as in I deal with differences and misunderstandings in real-time and move back to the good stuff so fast it makes people's heads spin. It is, oh so yet, another Silvia-McKenzie-ism.
I am a mentally, emotionally, sensually, sexually "deep" and intense GFE Femdom (good lord, I hate using the acronym "GFE!" It simply has become so subjective and bastardized, but for lack of a better term for the moment, I shall suffer through the mess it will make to get my "intent" across).
You will NOT "make a living" doing duos with me. As said above, I screen My potential clients so painfully, and am at the tippy-top of the local rate-structure (for whatever city I am visiting), that I ultimately see oh so very few people. That being said, I do not expect you to not play over and above what you do with me - I feel it would be both delusional and idiotic for anyone to think such was realistically possible (and I am one that L-O-V-E-S fantasies).
As grotesquely verbose as the above is, I am oh so absolutely possitive there is some delicate point I have overlooked. Nonetheless, there it is, my ISO.
From Twitter 01-20-2010
- From My Blog: From Twitter 01-19-2010 http://goo.gl/fb/2BrU
- Have to share a Funny Take on Anal Sex.... http://reframeit.com/c/CIiFvqfRwRi
- From My Blog: Have to share a Funny Take on Anal Sex.. http://goo.gl/fb/qpoz
- From My Blog: Silvia-McKenzie's Erotica Calendar - Peg-Ass-Us http://goo.gl/fb/poOD
- Reading: "7 of the weirdest vintage sex products ever | Guyism"( http://twitthis.com/twflqk )
- Reading: "Her Crime? Sex Work in New Orleans"( http://twitthis.com/cq8jrv )
- Reading: "Feministing, comments to "Her Crime, Sex Work in New Orleans""( http://twitthis.com/kqdpzz )
- "After Reading "Sex on TV: Spartacus, uncut" I will be watching the show!"( http://twitthis.com/92kfi6 )
- Reading: "S.F. street prostitution crackdown leads to 51 arrests"( http://twitthis.com/wpg9j4 )
- Reading: "Arrested! Man pays woman for sex, she refuses to deliver"( http://twitthis.com/nuxcz5 )
- Whores & Soldiers during the Civil War era. http://reframeit.com/c/ARx8clSHHtL
- From My Blog: Whores & Soldiers during the Civil W http://goo.gl/fb/IkoS
- I am THE Sex Goddess of the Western Hemisphere http://reframeit.com/c/ZiNPGd1sSb
- From My Blog: I am THE Sex Goddess of the Western Hemi http://goo.gl/fb/kkxR
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie You wouldn't do that!
- @easygoer132 Do what babe?
- RT @Poohbear98188: @SilviaMcKenzie S. Kubrick's Spartacus is one of my Fav films.
- RT @Poohbear98188: @SilviaMcKenzie A fav line: "What do you want to know, Spartacus? Everything!" Great movie!
- @Poohbear98188 I am definitely looking forward to viewing it.
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie I'm a Civil War buff. The History Channel had a good show called Sex in the Civil War: http://bit.ly/54vYdb
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie Run out on a client.
- @easygoer132 Yeh I would! If he sported a horse cock; has a "contagious" disease; IS A JERK... but that's not what you meant is it (*wink*)
- @easygoer132 Why would I run out on a client, I am too busy chasing the down to hump their bones....! (*giggle*)
- 3:30am, back to bed for me, Mr. Man is fed and pottied.
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie I suppose you've met those types.
- @easygoer132 Your kidding right? Given my degree of sexuality and intelligence I would think you would know I "intimately" screen better?
- @easygoer132 I've never had a bad client, but that's by my own hand. My screening process in unprecedented in the companionship world.
- to bed with me.
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Wednesday, January 20, 2010
I am THE Sex Goddess of the Western Hemi
"I can’t help it, I like to tell people I’m a sex blogger. I’m proud of what I do. I like the attention. I get a lot of weird looks, crazy stares and personal questions–the most popular of which is: “Exactly how much sex do you have?” Here’s my answer…I am THE Sex Goddess of the Western Hemisphere
Paloma Sex Goddess
Paloma Sex Goddess
Sex Goddess by: Maggie Estep
FreyaPri Sex Goddess
FreyaPri Sex Goddess
I am THE SEX GODDESS OF THE WESTERN HEMISPHERE
so don’t mess with me
I’ve got a big bag full of SEX TOYS
and you can’t have any
’cause they’re all mine
’cause I’m
the SEX GODDESS OF THE WESTERN HEMISPHERE.
“Hey,” you may say to yourself,
“who the hell’s she tryin’ to kid,
she’s no sex goddess,”
But trust me,
I am
if only for the fact that I have
the unabashed gall
to call
myself a SEX GODDESS,
I mean, after all,
it’s what so many of us have at some point thought.
We’ve all had someone
who worshiped our filthy socks
and barked like a dog when we were near
giving us cause
to pause and think: You know, I may not look like much
but deep inside, I am a SEX GODDESS.
Only
Athena Sex Goddess
Athena Sex Goddess
we’d never come out and admit it publicly
well, you wouldn’t admit it publicly
but I will
because I am
THE SEX GODDESS OF THE WESTERN HEMISPHERE.
I haven’t always been
a SEX GODDESS
I used to be just a mere mortal woman
but I grew tired of sexuality being repressed
then manifest
in late night 900 number ads
where 3 bodacious bimbettes
heave cleavage into the camera’s winking lens and sigh:
“Big Girls oooh, Bad Girls oooh, Blonde Girls oooh,
you know what to do, call 1-900-UNMITIGATED BIMBO ooooh.”
Yeah
Everyday Goddess with her boots and bag
Everyday Goddess with her boots and bag
I got fed up with the oooh oooh oooh oooh oooh
I got fed up with it all
so I put on my combat boots
and hit the road with my bag full of SEX TOYS
that were a vital part of my SEX GODDESS image
even though I would never actually use
my SEX TOYS
’cause my being a SEX GODDESS
it isn’t a SEXUAL thing
it’s a POLITICAL thing
I don’t actually have SEX, no
I’m too busy taking care of
important SEX GODDESS BUSINESS,
yeah,
I gotta go on The Charlie Rose Show
and MTV and become a parody
of myself and make
buckets full of money off my own inane brand
of self-righteous POP PSYCHOLOGY
because my pain is different
because I am a SEX GODDESS
and when I talk,
people listen
Why?
Because, you guessed it,
I AM THE SEX GODDESS OF THE WESTERN HEMISPHERE
and you’re not."
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Whores & Soldiers during the Civil W
"Johnny Reb and Billy Yank had a secret life, one that they and their families tried to hide from posterity and Ken Burns.Whores & Soldiers during the Civil War era.
They largely succeeded. Most men left no record of their sexual activities, or if they did, their survivors expurgated or expunged the record through destruction; the reality was a bit too seamy for pure sensibilities, legacies needed to be protected. Reports of wild times and venereal disease were not likely to be appreciated by descendants.
Thus the Civil, our most holy, War, ennobled at the time and forevermore as a moral cause by both sides, has been stripped of that most human and earthy dimension and instinct. War is a rite of passage for all young boys and men, and leaving home for the first time, to a large degree innocent and inexperienced, they often become unmoored from traditional, peacetime standards of moral behavior and drift into those of wartime, which is to say, the world turned upside down and violently shaken.
But in a volume that might otherwise be buried deep within the annals of weird books, The Story the Soldiers Wouldn't Tell: Sex in the Civil War (Stackpole, 1994), Thomas Lowry, M.D., addresses and fills, through diligent, original research that at the time of the book's publication unearthed a wealth of new material, that lacuna in the military record. Collectors of general military history, Civil War, or sexology literature should consider adding it to their shelves.
"There is a whole city of whores. Yes, father, a whole city. They have laid out a village to the east of where the railroad bends to the docks" (Young worker in the Sanitary Commission, City Point, Virginia, 1864).
"This section of the country seems to abound in in very bad women" (Sgt. A.L. Vairin, Dec. 27, 1862, near Weldon, NC).
"There has been a bonfire in the rear of my tent, burning up a large quantity of obscene books, taken from the mails" (Marsena Patrick, provost marshal general of the Army of the Potomac, June 8, 1863).
Those who follow modern shenanigans within shorts inside the Beltway will be unsurprised to learn that, according to file Volume 298, RG 393, Register of the Provost Marshall, 22d Army Corps, in 1864-65 there were seventy-three bawdy houses in Washington D.C. to service our servicemen. The register notes names, addresses, number of "Inmates," and "Class," i.e. 1 is best, 2 is fair, 3 is poor, and "low" is bad. Most houses had from 1-5 women in their employ, and earned a "1'" or a "2." Mary Taylor, however, had six girls working for her; her brothel was, however, rated ""low." One house stands out amongst all the others. Elizabeth Harley, at 4 Maryland, Island, ran a #1 rated brothel, apparently the city's high-end, big-box flesh retailer, featuring eighteen women.
The register also lists "coloured" bawdy houses. Of the twelve noted, only two brothels were rated #1, with two and five workers. Four were rated "low," one of which, Josephine Webster's Fighting Alley, employed twelve; a cheap crib house that earned its name.
Poor John B. Fletcher. In his diary we learn that, headed north to home by steamboat in 1863, he is waylaid by temptation in Memphis; her name is Woman. His resolve to get back home as soon as possible is foiled by too much funnin'.
Dec. 14th. Dwight and myself went to the theatre last night. Had a good time. I hardly know when I shall start up the river.
Dec. 15th. It's a pleasant kind of day. Indeed I must start up today or tomorrow without fail.
Dec. 16th. I'm still with Dwight. I am enjoying myself very much.Dec. 17th. A very cold kind of morning. Dwight and myself went to the theatre last night. Had a first-rate time. I should go up the river in two or three days.
Dec. 18th. It's a very pleasant morning. I intend to leave here tomorrow without fail. Had an introduction to Miss Annie Renney.
Dec. 19th. I have not gone yet. Shall go on the first boat. Spent the afternoon with Annie Renney. FXXXX good. Had a first-rate time.
Dec. 20th. I had a first-rate time last night with Annie. FXXXX good. I do hope there will be a boat going up today. I am very anxious to get north.
Of course he is. One more night with this war's Memphis Belle and the poor guy's a goner.
On June 27, 1863, the 14th North Carolina Regiment captured a large supply of Yankee whiskey at Carlisle, Pennsylvania. A musician in the regiment's band (band musicians, then as now, traditional suspects in matters of vice) reported that "some of the Pennsylvania women, hearing the noise of the revel and the music, dared to come near us. Soon they had formed the center of attention and joined in the spirit of the doings. After much whiskey and dancing, they shed most of their garments and offered us their bottoms. Each took on dozens of us, squealing in delight. For me it was hard come, easy go."
Prostitution and war are nothing new. It is comforting, however, to discover that the years 1860-1865 in the U.S. were not simply a long, bloody exercise in ideals and righteousness, however justified.
There are virtually no records of homosexual offenses being prosecuted in the military at the time simply because the word "homosexual" did not exist in the English language until 1895. Yet homosexual behavior did occur; statistically, it was inevitable. Lowry discusses it at length.
Lowry, a doctor and historian who earned his M.D. at Stanford, served in the U.S. Air Force, and was on staff at the Masters and Johnson clinic 1972-73, also discusses the incidence of rape, venereal disease, contemporary pornography, officers who were not gentlemen, and other aspects of sexuality during the war.
No social (history of the United States would be complete without a look at the clergy down and dirty. Modern examples of moral hypocrisy within the ranks of religious authority figures are found in abundance, with the commandment to "be fruitful and multiply" taken to extremes much appreciated by late-night comedians. Lowry recounts the stories of a few clergymen who notoriously tended to their flock with their pants down.
You are forgiven if you've never heard of the Very Reverend James Cook Richmond, an Episcopal priest, evangelical, and chaplain to the 2d Wisconsin Regiment of Infantry Volunteers. He was in the public ai ai ai! in 1863.
Seems he developed an obsessive erotomania for Miss Rosa Bielaski, a copyist working in the Treasury Building in Washington, D.C., and sent her a series of letters that became increasingly and compulsively obscene. Beginning in April, by May the unwelcome missives had become desperate epistles with four-letter pleas to wet his whistle, written in a frantic scrawl and illustrated with exceedingly graphic sexual imagery.
A military investigation concluded that Rev. Richmond was "a really wicked, lewd man and probably insane," and recommended that he be dismissed from the Army and placed in "an insane asylum." Yet he, like so many modern members of Congress of similar temperament and mental state, was simply asked to leave the shining city upon a swamp. Only a week later, he spoke at a rally of his work in "driving the devil out of Washington"; he did not, apparently, require the services of a chauffeur. But the lesson was not learned: Three years later, Rev. Richmond was murdered by the sharecropper who worked his farm. Richmond's offense? In yet another ongoing fit of erotomania, he had called the man's mother and sister black strumpets and whores; he had, it seems, experienced their reluctant charms.
It would be a mistake to conclude that all sexual matters during the Civil War were seamy. There is much tenderness and depth of feeling in much if not most correspondence between soldiers and their wives or betrothed. It sometimes belies the notion that decent, God-fearing 19th century middle class American women were not capable of sexual passion and satisfaction.
In a letter dated November 25, 1863 to her "dear and intended husband," Julia Higgins of Mills Springs, VA writes with great yearning for her fiancé:
"I love you with all my heart and with all my mind and long to see you Dear Jim. My mind dwells on the treasures we will have when you come back, embracing each other on the sofa and bed. I never felt so good as I did the first time I laid on the sofa. I wish it would last - always it is my daily thought to think of you and the good feelings we will have when you come home. You must not let anyone see this letter. Lay it next to your heart."
It is a letter that stands as testimony to the foolish reasons men go off to war and the only noble goal that remains after ideals are shattered by grim reality: To get home alive and in one piece to rest in the warm, naked embrace of one's love. It is a tender, aching, intimate battle hymn of the republic."
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Silvia-McKenzie's Erotica Calendar - Peg-Ass-Us
Seattle, Washington, Annex Theater February 14-17 8pm
Portland, Oregon, Someday Lounge February 19-21 8pm
I am seriously planning to attend a performance!
Have to share a Funny Take on Anal Sex..
Have to share a Funny Take on Anal Sex....
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From Twitter 01-19-2010
- From My Blog: From Twitter 01-18-2010 http://goo.gl/fb/sL2X
- I have been so busy with around the clock, every 1.5 hours syringe feedings of Mr Man that I have fallen behind on my sex RSS feeds.
- Marking all feeds read, no time to play catchup. Delete and starting anew - tomorrow - or the next day - perhaps the day after that...
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie thanks :) I remembered it from a college course I took in communications...
- RT @Rachel_Benedict: @SilviaMcKenzie one of my all time favorite classes
- @Rachel_Benedict I remember the jist of the theory from 1 of my University classes, but that was LONG ago and those textbooks are long gone
- Any university/college textbook pack-rats out there? Wish I had my old inner-personal cross-cultural communications text too.
- RT "No, I'm not a pessimist. At some point the world shits on everybody. Pretending it ain't shit makes you an idiot, not an optimist."
- Previous is a retweet of @shitmydadsays ... I had to break it in two because 140 characters isn't enough to add the RT info.
- RT @Paramour425: ashleymadison.com (a dating website for married people) has been running ads on
- RT @Paramour425: ashleymadison.com Playboy Radio that play off the Tiger Woods situation...
- Funny you mention ashleymadison.com advertising on Playboy radio, a month-ish ago they contacted me re: advertising on my Playmate web-blog.
- Rephrase that, they contacted me re: wanting me as an affiliate, which translates to them getting advertising space on my Playmate web-blog
- Mr Man got his dewclaws removed and tail docked today. Had to shorten his tail to Mommy's length as he had the same fused vertabra as Mommy.
- Adding a new reframe.it post to my blog. Give me 45 minutes after the reframe.it logs so I can add my own inline comments on my blog.
- Study Suggests Few Johns Turn Violet... http://reframeit.com/c/9ky8mMU5dVF
- From My Blog: Study Suggests Few Johns Turn Violet... http://goo.gl/fb/YggE
- Unwritten Sex-worker and Client Commandments, Rules and Frown-Upons penned by Me and posted on escort board http://tinyurl.com/yddcv9f
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Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Study Suggests Few Johns Turn Violet...
The following is an article taken from my RSS news reader, I am embedding my own comments within the article, and having highlighted them in red.
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"A study suggests that those who pay for sex are not more likely than the general population to become violent. According to Simon Fraser University sociologist, Chris Atchinson, legislation that impacts purchasers of sex should focus on the small percentage who are aggressive.
Atchinson administered 1000 online anonymous questionnaires and conducted 24 in-depth interviews for his controversial study, John’s Voice. [I am going out on a limb and "ass"uming that since the questionnaires were administered online, that the target "Johns" were those that use online prostitutes, as opposed to those that frequent street-rag advertisers or street-prostitutes. Now I am wondering, was the target group acquired from a lower-rung escort review board? Aplication of simple logistics make one doubtful that "Johns" that frequent higher-caliber ladies were a part of the group.]
According to the johns in the study, 1.9 percent reported having hit, pushed or physically attacked a prostitute, 1 percent reported having raped or sexually assaulted a sex worker and 1.7 percent reported having stolen from a sex worker [being in the elite companion sector, I can say I have never been hit pushed or physically attacked (in a bad way that is) (*wink*), nor have I ever been raped or sexually assaulted. I have had panties and sex-toys stolen, but that was during my brief stint as both a feature performer and private dancer, never as a companion.]
“The question becomes, ‘How different are sex buyers from any other member of the population?’” said Atchison. “With this particular sample, there doesn’t appear to be large differences because one can assume that in the regular population, about that same percentage of men are probably violent and aggressive in their daily lives as well.” [Wow! Who knew, "Johns" are normal as every other guy on the planet]
Interestingly, the self-report surveys revealed that johns see themselves as victims. A large proportion of respondents (42.9 percent) claimed that they paid for services they did not receive, 18.6 percent said they had been verbally abused by a prostitute (they did not indicate if this “abuse” was part of the services paid for) and 19.8 percent said they had been robbed by a sex worker. Many (29.4 percent) also complained that a sex worker had posted a negative review about them on an online forum. [Wow! This sheds light on my above question as to what rung of the ladder the sample group was from, as well as what rung of the prostitute ladder the sample group frequented. I am now curious which of the myriad of escort review boards the sample group came from.]
Though the research has been criticized for its self-report methodology, Atchinson insists that anonymous responders would have no reason to lie. And while some critics claim that all sex-for-money constitutes violence against women, the professionals working in the industry refute this approach to sex work. They do, however, acknowledge that criminalization and a lack of accessible support services do increase the risk of violence against workers.
The Sex Workers Outreach Projects (SWOP) explains, “Sex workers are individuals whose reasons for engaging in sex work – and leaving it − are personal, economic and social – as complex as anyone’s reasons for involvement in any type of work.” SWOP advocates for those most impacted by sex work (the workers themselves) to have a voice in legislation that impacts their trade and livelihood. They also work to “raise awareness about violence that is commonly committed against sex workers” and campaign for the decriminalization of sex work, as “existing laws prevent sex workers from reporting violence.”
The study is part of a larger research project designed to examine the beliefs, experiences, and activities of both prostitutes and johns. Hopefully subsequent portions of the study will reflect a more complete view of violence against sex workers by consulting with the workers themselves and examining the ways in which social stigma and legislation further marginalize and endanger men and women in the sex trade."
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From Twitter 01-18-2010
- From My Blog: From Twitter 01-17-2010 http://goo.gl/fb/8qRI
- @Paramour425 Funny! You are looking for normalcy and I am running away from normalcy as much as possible these days. Fantasy Island?
- @boytoy97 Babe, I have not been to a computer where I can view videos... so they are still sitting in my que.
- Made a post to my blog and then took liberty to post the same as a thread on the TNAboard.com in the Lounge, it is in regards to Jaded
- Escort Client. @Rachel_Benedict posted a very interesting comment on the subject on my blog. Even the thread has turned up some interesting
- takes on the topic as well. I am considering posting the same query to two more local (when in the states that would be Seattle & Portland)
- Posting to a board in a place like NYC or LA would really reach a large pool of opinions, but I do not have the time or patience to
- to track down what the best overall escort review and massaging forum for those cities would be. Anybody have any suggestions?
- Mommy dog has been a FANTASTIC first-time mommy. Problem is, with a 2oz singleton, there is not enough demand for milk to keep mommy dog
- producing. Needless to say, last night was a LONG night. Mr. Man has now taken to syringe feeding and the scary moment seem to be over.
- Mr Man was supposed to get his tail banded today, but given his rough night, I have put it off to tomorrow. By then I should have 30ml of
- milk replacer in him.
- Reading: "The Connection between Sex and Spirituality | sliby.com"( http://twitthis.com/p2g4es )
- RT @Paramour425: @SilviaMcKenzie Why not post to TER? They have some "national" boards, don't they?
- RT @Paramour425: @SilviaMcKenzie I haven't even read your query yet. That tells you how out of sorts I am.
- @Paramour425 How did I totally forget about TER. Cripes. As usual, I am getting a bashing for my queries. Damn Sister R all to hell! *LOL*
- @Paramour425 I must admit, this is gonna sound so sick and twisted, but it makes me appreciate what I've got thousand fold!
- @TheJoker162 Hey, Joker, how are you this... uh what time is it now any way... 1:30am?
- I am not getting much sleep -- getting Mr Man through his first week will take dedication, but he is doing great! (for now)
- Sleeping sitting up in a tube top with Mr. Man safe and warm between the ninnies; this way he wakes me when he is hungry... or needs to pee
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie A tube top. huh? Very fortunate!
- @easygoer132 I was thinking Mr. Man had it made as far as choice of pillows goes... but then I am biased (*wink*)
- @whimsicle Victoria, Silvia-McKenzie here. Question. How do you keep from getting emotionally exhausted from the cynical and jaded clients
- @whimsicle that seem to proliferate our little play-space of debauchery? Do you just avoid message boards? Do tell, as I am weiry and I
- @whimsicle am only a day into reconnecting with the Seattle Portland message boards.
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie He does have it made. Love your boobs. I want them, badly.
- @easygoer132 *LOL* why do you always send me sexual innuendos when there is a very very small puppy occupying the particular space? *LOL*
- I really need to work on untwisting my wicked brain.... well, at least untwist a twist or two
- So strange when I get mention that comes as spam to a key word I used in the tweet. Could get annoying as key wordspaming gets more popular
- Spamming will most likely be what chases me away from twitter one day.
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie I can't help it iI suppose. Want me to stop?
- @easygoer132 WHAT! stop? Hell NO!!!!! I live for that shit! And your the only one that dishes it up for me (I'm pitiful - eh?)
- RT @mistressmatisse: agrees @amanda_brooks: ...reinforces a fallacy, that sex workers are, acros the board, in more danger than other women.
- @mistressmatisse I don't know about that. I have been beaten and bashed on the PacNW messages boards enough in 2 days to feel "in danger"
- Whine whine whine. I don't really feel abused. Actually a good majority of it amuses me. (That's just so wrong, on so many levels)
- RT @mistressmatisse: @SilviaMcKenzie I'm not saying we're not. (Altho I've never been assaulted.)
- RT @mistressmatisse: @SilviaMcKenzie But I disagree we're in MORE danger than many non-sexworkers.
- RT @mistressmatisse: @SilviaMcKenzie Just saw the bit about "on the message boards".
- RT @mistressmatisse: @SilviaMcKenzie I think for that you need a flame-retardant computer screen. ;>
- @mistressmatisse Flame retardant suit and screen now on order
- @easygoer132 You wanna DM me eh? Sounds like fun ;>
- @easygoer132 Ummm, I need to say something but do not want to "hurt feelings"
- RT @Poohbear98188: @SilviaMcKenzie Never take anything written about you on the internet personally (or seriously).
- RT @Poohbear98188: @SilviaMcKenzie Same rule applies when you are driving :o)
- @Poohbear98188 Oh, babe I don't, actually I find it rather amusing in a weird twisted Silvia-M way... Doesn't mean I LIKE it though.
- @Poohbear98188 My intelligence tends to "shine" when I am challenged. Then I am Mediterranean and enjoy lively, albeit constructive, debate.
- @Poohbear98188 Unfortunately the message board dissenters lack the "constructive" quality.
- @easygoer132 OK, let me check something first --- as in before I put my foot (not your cock) in my mouth (*grin*)
- @easygoer132 *giggle* so glad I opted to check on that little thingy before making an ass of myself!! You are now followed da'ling.
- @Poohbear98188 Yikes, I just took the lowroad on the message board and spanked the dissenter. I feel so low and shameful.
- @easygoer132 I will take that as a publicly announced compliment!
- RT @easygoer132: @SilviaMcKenzie Your an easy lady to compliment.
- @easygoer132 Thank babe. Momma didn't raise no fool. I will take those compliments -- I am "woman" by the way.
- I feel, I feel, I feel, on fire! I wanna either fuck or go to court right now! Shit! I am becoming a low-brow escort review board poster.
- Save me Aphrodite!
- @easygoer132 I laugh when an American mentions Bologna. Just wrong on so many levels. Jest aside, maybe, don't remember
- Funny, the take when one's stomping grounds (expanded) is anothers tourist destination (or brief living quarters)
- When I am at home in Europa everybody asks me if I go to the Grand Canyon, Space Needle and Statue of Liberty.
- Just sharing an insightful giggle.
- RT @Poohbear98188: @SilviaMcKenzie Its easy for me. I'm an exterminator. I get down & dirty with rats & roaches all the time.
- Reviewboard nerds are nothin' lol
- Well, @Poohbear98188 I do feel as if I have belittled myself for spanking him, but not little enough to delete it. Which makes me feel worse
- Back to philosophy and Budda for me -- I am not as enlightened and mature as I had thought. tsk, tsk, tsk on me.
- @Poohbear98188 and here I thought you were a pro-golfer. (*giggle*)
- I think part of my "fire" on that poor guy comes from my pent up sexual energy... saddly I havn't had a proper lay in WEEKS (ok, 2 months)
- I fear when I do finally get a proper lay it is going to break through this shell I have been wearing through Sister R's husbands assisted
- death, then my 110yo live-in mother-in-laws passing -- I will be a blubbering usless puddle of nothingness. Oh well, cant think of better
- therapy than a phenominal sexual romp with someone that I trust to not think ill of me when I "let it all out"
- Cripes. I went all sentimental and "girl' on you all there. Sorry.
- RT @YQuiet: @SilviaMcKenzie You just sent male Twitterdom into a frenzy that will result in countless numbers with tears of frustration. ;)
- @YQuiet OK, please, please tell me that the smile at the end means it was OK, good, fine.....
- RT @tinyMember: @SilviaMcKenzie Your incall is just too damned inconvenient right now! =)
- @tinyMember Ya think! Red Bull will give you wings!!!
- @YQuiet I figured as much... but sometimes with 140 characters.... ya never know (*wink*)
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Monday, January 18, 2010
From Twitter 01-17-2010
- From My Blog: From Twitter 01-16-2010 http://goo.gl/fb/qYff
- From My Blog: Query: How to Understand the Phenomenon known as "The Jaded Escort Client" http://goo.gl/fb/EmcL
- @Poohbear98188 Is that on the same board. I just found that board yesterday.
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